my main concern is it needs to be more capible than a nas /while being cheap af /with decent selfhosting options

Plottwist. Not shure where/tab the hub intro is coming

You probly could use tail scale. To acses jellyfin remotely. And automaticly sort /download things trough sonarr/radarr. If Windows is not a must I would probly recommend using ubuntu-kde on your laptop. There a script cald yams.media. That can do the install of all thing for you.

block youtube/facebook/and any social media . though dns .with pihole for the time being . and in the meantime try to reset her youtube(or delete and create new one -if she doesnt use gmail)

one of the best things i host on my server .love not having to use any third part acount like plex also kinda feels less bloated ,than plex .whice i like

These are some things I recommend. Vault warden. (paswoord manager). Jellyfin. (a great web based media player)… Portainer

pirate 1ste buyit later its a must if you dont like games with dunuvo

if posible the whole of reddit should just limit/disable posting if possible
and un privet the subreddits for historic reasons .

48 hours is just not gonna make a significant effect on reddits wallet

the strike should be atleast a few months .at this rate the protest will do fuck all

i love lurking on reddit .but while on lemmy its not so hard to forget reddit