School officials canceled public performances of “The Bullying Collection”, telling organizers it did not conform to school values. Scenes in the play include one student confronting another for bullying a gay student.

Oliver Baez spent two months rehearsing a scene for a school play in which his character confronts another student about bullying a gay student who takes his own life.

After much preparation, the 12-year-old’s small scene turned into a big problem among school officials in Wheatland, Wyoming. At the last minute they canceled the anti-bullying play, saying it did not conform to school values and leaving the young cast without a stage.

“It was awful,” Baez said. “For the school to cancel it, it’s like saying that ‘LGBTQ should not be included in a society.’ Which is really awful and cruel.”

Twenty-five years after a watershed moment for the gay rights movement — the murder of Matthew Shepard, a 21-year-old student in a university town not far from Wheatland — the canceled performances of “The Bullying Collection” show how far the LGBTQ+ community still has to go to gain acceptance in Wyoming and elsewhere.

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A local theater group, the Platte County Players, has permission to perform there and salvaged the rights to the play and sponsored the performance a month later at the high school, as originally planned.

  • force@lemmy.world
    7·
    10 months ago

    I mean if you don’t love your partner you shouldn’t be in a relationship with your partner, unless that relationship brings other things that convince you to stay with them. If you’re unhappy with your monogamous relationship and want to pursue a non-monogamous relationship, then that’s your decision to leave your current relationship.

    Nobody should have to stay with someone they don’t love, and nobody should have to stay in a relationship they are unhappy with. And conversely, everyone should be able to be in a consensual relationship with someone they love, and everyone should be able to be in a consensual relationship that they’re happy with. If your relationship makes you unhappy, you have no personal obligation to stay in it, and if your relationship makes you happy, you have no personal obligation to leave it.

    Also you have no obligation to your parents or outsiders at all for that matter. They don’t “deserve” to decide your entire life just because they fucked without protection one day. Don’t let other people control your happiness, especially not cultist nutjobs.

    If you want to marry for tax purposes only, there’s nothing wrong with that. Marriage in the current sense is an entirely legal concept, and only exists for legal purposes.

    Like I’m sorry if you regret your relationship choice and you’re unhappy with it, that you’re sexually unattracted to your wife and have such strong sexual and/or romantic urges for other people that you want to cheat on her / are so untrusting of your wife that you’re paranoid that she wants to cheat on you, and you felt you’ve gone in too deep to pull out of it, but that’s on you and entirely your problem. Don’t get into a relationship if you know from the start that you’re going to be unhappy with it, and don’t stay in a relationship and waste everyone’s time and emotional effort if it makes you miserable. It’s pretty obvious but I guess some people have a hard time understanding it.

    • gaifux@lemmy.world
      18·
      10 months ago

      Exactly. I for one encourage fathers to leave their wives the second they are challenged or bored of it. For the good of society. Kids gotta grow up some day and learn they don’t necessarily need a father or discipline and financial stability. I mean, if they aren’t always happy how can society ever get there? Proud of young minds like yours that see through the BS and understand that indeed, it’s all about your happiness.

      • force@lemmy.world
        51·
        10 months ago

        If you take boredom or challenge as making your relationship miserable I guess. I don’t think your wife would want to be chained to someone that’s so irresponsible or delusional as to play strawman like this, so you’d probably be doing her a favor… assuming you have a wife (I doubt you do nor ever will but I have to suspend my disbelief sometimes).

          • force@lemmy.world
            51·
            10 months ago

            Not cruel, just stating the obvious. Like if you’re that unstable, causing any amount of change to make you extremely unhappy with your relationship, you probably shouldn’t be in the relationship to begin with. You shouldn’t have kids in the first place even, like if you’re that quick to commit to something you know next to nothing about, that is an issue entirely caused by your selfishness and/or impulsiveness.

            The only obligation you have is to your kids, because you made the decision to bring them into this world and you’re responsible for cursing them with existence, you have no obligation to your relationship or your parents or anyone else for that matter.

            • gaifux@lemmy.world
              14·
              10 months ago

              Thanks for avoiding beating strawmen to death. It’s like you’re here with me, my wife, and our kids, trying to make it work ♥️

              • force@lemmy.world
                51·
                10 months ago

                Yeah, all of your comments are strawmen, I’m aware. I’m extracting the actual argument you’re trying to make out of the strawmen, because clearly you do think everyone has an obligation to force themselves into a shitty relationship that makes them and their partner unhappy just because their parents or God said so, the position probably being projection from your life experience since you seem to like to bring up your parents.

                My point is that that is the stance a religious nutjob takes, not a normal functioning human being, and saying “haha here’s a witty sarcastic comment about my dad cheating on my mom” doesn’t have any bearing on gay people’s relationships. You can get mad at other people’s happiness all you want, but at the end of the day you’re just crying over other people not conforming to your beliefs and getting mad that they won’t make themselves miserable for your sky daddy.

                • gaifux@lemmy.world
                  13·
                  10 months ago

                  Leave your wife and kids when you feel like it for the happiness boost, got it. If you were a relationship counselor in my area I’d sign my wife up- you’re good.

                  • force@lemmy.world
                    51·
                    10 months ago

                    Lol your entire point was that “gay relationship bad because some people want to cheat on their wife”. This has nothing to do with leaving kids, yet you’re trying to insert kids into the equation to make people feel bad about the concept of relationships based on consent. Stop being delusional. You can’t “leave your kids”.